STINKING THINKING

I have spent the last few days doing a lot of STINKING THINKING.

This is simply when your thinking is off in a very bad way and you just STOP doing all the things you want to do to grow your business.

More specifically, you have a conversation in your head that looks like this…

“What the hell do you think you are doing girl!?!”

“No one wants your stuff!”

“No one thinks you can do this!”

“You must be crazy!”

“Who would want to work with you?”

“You’re not good enough!”

And the list goes on!

Well…Get used to it!

This is normal and natural.  You will have this conversation often through the course of your business.

I have it often because I move quickly.

When you actually make a decision to start taking your business seriously and doing your business,

When you are growing,

When you are up-levelling in anyway,

It feels like the world is crashing down on you that everyone and everything is simply against you.

Knowing this is half the battle.

Becoming aware of your STINKING THINKING and that it will happen is half the battle.

Then conquering it is actually winning the battle.

What is the STINKING THINKING?

The Universe is testing you to see you are truly ready for the next step in your business and life.

NEW LEVEL – NEW DEVIL is what they say.

Here is the really good News….YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!

Everyone one goes through this.   I go through it often!

So what do you do about it?

How do you conquer the STINKING THINKING crap and all the tests that come along with it?

Simple….Make a choice to keep moving!

Ask for the lessons to less painful and keep moving; read a book, learn something new but keep moving.

The bad phase will stop.

Unfortunately, it will happen again, and again and again.   Each time it will be easier to get through.

It does get easier each time because you are becoming AWARE of what the stinking thinking looks like for you.

You are learning how to deal with you and what works for you.

The truly beautiful thing about all this is…

On the other side of all of it is PURE MAGIC!

New clients appear
New opportunities appear
Your business grows
And…
You grow

So look the STINKING THINKING square in the face – YOU

Tell yourself to smarten up

And

KEEP GOING!

Your Tribe will love you for it.

You will love yourself for it.

The Magic will begin.

Lots of Love!
Loretta

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DON’T LET ANYONE CRAP ON YOUR DREAMS

Fall is in the air here in Canada.   The leaves are turning to beautiful shades of oranges and reds.

Everything is so pretty which gives me a ton of inspiration.

So I decided to take a good look at how my final quarter is shaping up; have I reached my goals so far, what new would I like to do, what end of the year programs I would like to offer and of course am I on track with making the money I want.

With all these good vibes and positivity going on you would think nothing could get in the way.

But….

The nay-sayer appeared with their version of what they think I should be doing.

Yes, they think they are well intentioned….but really….are they?

Absolutely not!

The nay-sayers don’t just appear right in front of you.  They can appear to you on-line in your facebook group, Linked in group, Twitter account, just about anywhere.

They want to knock you on your ASS and stop you in your tracks!

DON’T LET ANYONE CRAP ON YOUR DREAMS!

There will always be someone in business or your personal life that is well intentioned and think they know what is best for you?

They will tell you…

You are crazy!
You can’t do that!
You can’t or won’t make it!
Your Dream is stupid!
You need a Coach!
You need a website!
You won’t make any money!
You need to do this or that!

You don’t need all that.

All you need is YOU!

You have everything you need right now, in this moment to build the business you want, the life you want!

You have everything inside of you right now to bring to you all the clients and resources you want!

You have your own unique gifts, talents and genius that the world is waiting for.

All you need to add to all those beautiful gifts is some action.

Until next time…

Lots of Love!
Loretta

 

PS:  BELIEVE IN YOURSELF 5 DAY CHALLENGE

OK, so the nay-sayers have got you down a bit!  So what!

Let’s kicked them to the curb!

I created this awesome 5 day training to build your confidence, ignore the nay-sayers and build a Teflon shield around you!

Starts: October 16th at 9am EST Via Facebook LIve

Day 1: What do you not want in your life and feel free to stand up and be you

Day 2: Mindset and Journalling

Day 3: Learn how to Make a Decision that is right for you

Day 4: Your  transformational offers

Day 5: Putting it all together to make it all work for you

To make it super easy I will be walking you through each step, simply because I love to teach!

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A LESSON FROM THE UNIVERSE

Today, I want to share a piece of my story.  It comes with a very big lesson from the Universe.

I started my business over 7 years ago.  I have a lot of success, a lot of failures and I have worked with people all over the world to get the results they want.

About 2 years ago I went through a lot of changes – some good some bad.

I up-leveled where I lived which came with a lot more expenses, celebrated the birth a new little one in the family, had some devastating news about my son and lost my father to cancer.   A lot was going on.  I mean lots.

During this time I got lost.  I forgot why I was business and who I was supposed to help.  Mostly I lost myself and who I was.

While I was trying to figure all this out I started losing everything I worked so hard to create.  Within 2 weeks I lost all my clients which lead to my money fear setting in.  I felt even more lost than ever.

I thought the answer to everything was to get a job.  So I got a job.  At first I thought it was a perfect job for me.  It was a nice little family business that the owner had built from scratch.  Perfect! I can work and help this business.  Boy was I wrong.  It took 3 – 4 hours a day to travel back and forth to the job and cost $300 a month.   The Vice President of the company only wanted someone to come do the work and leave.  There was absolutely no room to suggest changes or show her a different way to do business.

The job started to literally kill my heart and my soul.

Earlier this year I turned 49.  That’s when it all changed for me. I knew there was a better way.  There was more that I was supposed to be doing.  I kept getting nudges to start my business again.

I ignored it all.

Finally, the Universe had enough of me not doing anything about it, that I was not doing what I was supposed to be doing.  So, the Universe put crap in my way to make me sit up and smarten up!

Here’s what happened!

My son was in the hospital because he wanted to kill himself.  I just about lost my shit!

My boss gave me shit for not coming to work.  I kept my mouth shut and took action to change things – to get out of this job.

HERE IS THE LESSON IN ALL OF THIS…

You have to find your purpose…your calling and start living it or crap will get in your way.  Really bad shit can happen.

Ladies!

YOU have a purpose in your life.

YOU have gifts and talents that need to be shared with the world.

The world is waiting for YOU!

Learn from my crap….GET STARTED!

It only takes on very small step to get moving.

Once you do the Magic will happen

Find you message and your voice and start screaming from the roof tops.

Simply, you are perfect and ready just as you are to create the life you want.

Don’t let anyone stop you!

It is exactly what I started doing and I am much happier for it.  At times it is scary but that is normal.

Let the magic begin!

Lots of Love!
Loretta

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